LLT #204 :Are You A Family Caregiver? Oh The Rollercoaster Of Emotionsπ π’π€―π°π©! Is This Normal? Are YOU?
#familycaregivers #emotionalhealth #emotionalrollercoasters #anxietyanddepression #anticpatorygrief #grief #familydynamics #dementiacare #dementiasupport #shame #brenebrown
Family Caregiving is NOT for the faint hearted and despite our best intentions, the daily grind, the fatigue, the unexpected, the loneliness, can lead to a cascade of emotions that can be difficult to understand, much less process, and leave you feeling as if "there is no way out"
The questions:
Is it ok to have these emotions? --YES!
Am I "losing it"? - NO!
What IS happening to me? - Let's talk!
So much research and even in general conversation, here are some of the most common (and normal) emotions you may have as Family Caregiver (and what you can do about it):
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GUILT and SHAME; ANGER/FRUSTRATION; ANXIETY; GRIEF ; SADNESS/DEPRESSION.
Is there no way out? NO!!!
It starts with : talking - PRAY and pray again; talk to a trusted friend; make time for you; and sometimes , you just have to "BREATHE".
You got this!
One day/hour at a time
From my heart to yoursπ
Dr. Lana
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Overwhelmed? Let's connect: π§lana@lanaannemd.com
For more insights and connect for a FREE face-to-Face 15 minute Zoom call, and a place where we can connect as physicians on my website:
lanaslittlethings.com
If you're a Family Caregiver at your wit's end, needing a different perspective, set up your free 15-minute coaching call-also by email -lana@lanaannemd.com - or on www.lanaslittlethings.com
I always look forward to meeting Fellow Family Caregivers- we gotta stick together!π―
LLT #203 - What Is DELIRIUM? How Is is Different from Dementia ? π΄π½π΅π½ππ
#delirium #moodchange r #alzheimerawareness #elderlycare #healthyaging #brainhealth #seniorcare #familycaregivers #mindfulness
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π΄π½π΅π½ππWhat is DELIRIUM?
π΄π½π΅π½ππHow is it different from DEMENTIA?
π΄π½π΅π½ππHow can you tell?
π΄π½π΅π½ππWhat can be done?
While the journey through caring for loved ones with Dementia, it can be absolutely distressing to see a person previously 'OK", behaving in a bizarre way.
Take courage! It may "just be DELIRIUM" .
According to many medical sources, Delirium is a fast-developing type of confusion that affects your ability to focus the person's attention (notably) and awareness
Why?- When there is a disruption in brain activity, for any reason, there is a definite change.
Delirium is more common during long (or short) hospital stays or persons transitioned to long-term care facilities., but even at home or in daily living, a "simple fall", may cause damage to brain cells and even bleeding on the brain (from a smaller brain size and more tendency to injury.)
The most common concern relatives /carers say is:
βThatβs NOT the person I know.β
While it is good to know that most causes of Delirium are transient and reversible, the reality is some may be a precursor to (especially , underlying Dementia).
Jojn me in a discussion on 5 main changes that can help you to identify/distinguish between these 2 "cousins".
Observe, Seek help, Ask questions!
One day/hour at a time
From my heart to yoursπ
Dr. Lana
Main research:
https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/15252-delirium
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Overwhelmed? Let's connect: π§lana@lanaannemd.com
For more insights and connect for a FREE face-to-Face 15 minute Zoom call, and a place where we can connect as physicians on my website:
lanaslittlethings.com
If you're a Family Caregiver at your wit's end, needing a different perspective, set up your free 15-minute coaching call-also by email -lana@lanaannemd.com - or on www.lanaslittlethings.com
I always look forward to meeting Fellow Family Caregivers- we gotta stick together!π―
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Lanaslittlethings#202 - The 7 Stages of Alzheimer's Disease - What to Expect? π΄π½π΅π½π
#alzheimer #alzheimerawareness #elderlycare #healthyaging #brainhealth #seniorcare #familycaregivers #thelonggoodbye #ronaldreagan
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Alzheimerβs disease is a neurological brain disorder that causes impairment with memory, thinking skills, and behaviour.
The reality, which is so very distressing, is its progression, its unpredictability and , personally, a sense of loss.
It sure does feel, as the late FLOTUS Nancy Reagan wrote: 'THE LONG GOODBYE"π
What may help is knowing that there is some reference point that may open dialogue and provide some clarity to families.
Developed by Dr. Barry Reisberg, and also called :
"The Global Deterioration".
Here we go:
π΄π½π΅π½Stage 1- Normal; no impairment
π΄π½π΅π½Stage 2 - Subjective Memory Loss- mainly "where are my keys?", and considered age-related forgetfulness
π΄π½π΅π½Stage 3 - Mild Cognitive Impairment - repeating oneself
π΄π½π΅π½Stage 4 - Moderate Cognitive Decline- considered mild dementia and the "start " of defining Alzheimerβs Disease - more assistance; less recall
π΄π½π΅π½Stage 5 - Moderately Severe Cognitive Decline - more dependence
π΄π½π΅π½Stage 6- a to e - Severe Cognitive Decline ; also known as Moderately Severe Dementia
π΄π½π΅π½Stage 7 - a to f - Very Severe Cognitive Decline; also referred to as Severe Dementia - complete dependence ; either non verbal or just one word at a time. Limbs are stiff and feel almost immobile.
Daunting? Yes!
And yet, it does provide a place to begin dialogue with your healthcare team.
There are no words; and yet, communication , LOVE, respect and sometimes, just a few minutes to be alone (as Caregiver) help our mental health.
Let us embrace these fundamentals; see each other in an atmosphere of acceptance, understanding, empathy and love .
Research(main) :
https://www.alzinfo.org/understand-alzheimers/clinical-stages-of-alzheimers/
One day/hour at a time
From my heart to yoursπ
Dr. Lana.........................................................
Overwhelmed? Let's connect: π§lana@lanaannemd.com
For more insights and connect for a FREE face-to-Face 15 minute Zoom call, and a place where we can connect as physicians on my website:
lanaslittlethings.com
If you're a Family Caregiver at your wit's end, needing a different perspective, set up your free 15-minute coaching call-also by email -lana@lanaannemd.com - or on www.lanaslittlethings.com
I always look forward to meeting Fellow Family Caregivers- we gotta stick together!π―