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Gents!! JUST for YOU! From me๐ฉ๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐๐๐ฝ(with another Specially Invited Guest)
This is the Final Segment for November- What a month!
PART 2 of 2 - Men's MENTAL HEALTH - Do You Really Need a Therapist?
Sadly, despite the increasing need worldwide of issues concerning men's mental health, seeking "help" is still viewed with stigma and disdain.
WHY??
3 words: STIGMA , FEAR, and SHAME.๐คซ๐ฅบ๐
๐ด๐ฝ๐" REAL men don't go to the doctor; only WEAK men do".
This is one of the MAJOR reasons for men , older and younger, from seeking help, seeking a listening ear, and descending into "depth of despair" and, sadly, suicide and substance abuse continue to escalate as a means of escape.
๐ท๐ท๐ท๐ท๐ทPlease join me as I am so grateful to discuss these matters with Clinical Psychologist Mr. Krisnan Hurdle who will
๐ทReview those at risk
๐ท Describe the many ways that men can (safely and in privacy reach out to a trained therapist for assistance ) and
๐ทPractical methods and healthy coping strategies which not only improve self-confidence, but also improve the closest and most meaningful relationships in our lives!
๐ท๐ท๐ท๐ท๐ท
Contact Mr Hurdle : @https://www.instagram.com/insightconsultingcbean/
I trust that you will find this information vital for you and your friends and family who may be struggling to cope with stressors.
It is a sign of COURAGE๐ฏ , NOT weakness, to reach out when you are overwhelmed.
Remember:
๐ด๐ฝ๐๐LISTEN! If your friend or relative is exhibiting any of these signs , listen to the unspoken word; take them seriously (suicide among older persons IS increasing)
๐ด๐ฝ๐๐Don't just "bring it up"; start with general conversation and again: ;let them TALK!
๐ด๐ฝ๐๐ Form a "men's only community- "MANSHED" - mentor, provide a safe space to talk freely and .... eventually suggest seeking help.
Gents; older or younger:
WE NEED YOU!๐๐๐
YOU MATTER!๐๐๐
What action step will you take TODAY?
๐Prevention, Preparation, Protection๐
Good vibes always!๐
From my heart to yours๐
Dr. Lana
(Disclaimer: this is not meant to dictate medical information; please see full advice from your medical doctor)
#lanaslittlethings
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Overwhelmed? Let's connect: ๐งlana@lanaannemd.com
For more insights and connect for a FREE face-to-Face 15 minute Zoom call, and a place where we can connect as physicians on my website: lanaslittlethings.com
If you're a Family Caregiver at your wit's end, needing a different perspective, set up your free 15-minute coaching call-also by email -lana@lanaannemd.com - or on lanaslittlethings.com.
I always look forward to meeting Fellow Family Caregivers- we gotta stick together!๐ฏ
LANA'S LITTLE THINGS #189
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Gents!! JUST for YOU! From me๐ฉ๐ฝโโ๏ธ๐๐๐ฝ
Welcome back!
November is Men's Health Month! ๐
PART 1 of 2 - MENTAL HEALTH IN OLDER MALES
Sadly, this is increasing worldwide, notably among men in general; and older males.
WHY??
3 words: STIGMA ,FEAR, SHAME.๐คซ๐ฅบ๐
๐ด๐ฝ๐" Real Men don't go to the doctor; only WEAK men do".
This is one of the MAJOR reasons for men , especially older males , from seeking help, seeking a listening ear, and descending into "depth of despair" and , sadly, suicide and substance abuse; feeling unwanted and . unvalidated.
Yet there are several factors which uniquely affect older males and there IS HELP; if we recognise the risks and note the signs and .......be the FRIEND/FAMILY that LISTENS and STICKS together.๐
Please join me as I discuss a few of these and when and where help may be found )more on that next week)
RISKS:
๐ด๐ฝ๐Major depressive disorder is strongly associated with suicide among older adults
๐ด๐ฝ๐Previous mental health disorders many of which were undiagnosed when younger
๐ด๐ฝ๐Chronic physical ill-health is also associated with suicide risk (and the more diseases, the higher the risk and thought : "there is no help".
๐ด๐ฝ๐Chronic pain appears to be a more important factor in male than in female suicide.
๐ด๐ฝ๐Stressful life events โ especially loss of a spouse or best friend
๐ด๐ฝ๐Loss of your social circle
๐ด๐ฝ๐Cognitive Impairment and Dementia
SIGNS:
๐ด๐ฝ๐Social withdrawal
๐ด๐ฝ๐Talk of wanting to die; saying " I'm old and no use to anyone"; "it's time for me to go"
๐ด๐ฝ๐Substance use/abuse (especially silent
๐ด๐ฝ๐Change of sexual identity
๐ด๐ฝ๐Abuse as a child ,which was never reported or raised until very late in life; tus no help was sought or available.
๐ด๐ฝ๐Retirement or loss of a job
HOW TO HELP?
๐ด๐ฝ๐๐LISTEN! If your friend or relative is exhibiting any of these signs , listen to the unspoken word; take them seriously (suicide among older persons IS increasing)
๐ด๐ฝ๐๐Don't just "bring it up"; start with general conversation and again: ;let them TALK!
๐ด๐ฝ๐๐ Form a "men's only community- "MANSHED" - mentor, provode a safe space to talk freely and .... gradually suggest seeking help.
Gents; older or younger:
WE NEED YOU!๐๐๐
YOU MATTER!๐๐๐
What action step will you take TODAY?
๐Prevention, Preparation, Protection๐
Good vibes always!๐
From my heart to yours๐
Dr. Lana
(Disclaimer: this is not meant to dictate medical information; please see full advice from your medical doctor)
.....................................................
Overwhelmed? Let's connect: ๐งlana@lanaannemd.com
For more insights and connect for a FREE face-to-Face 15 minute Zoom call, and a place where we can connect as physicians on my website:
lanaslittlethings.com
If you're a Family Caregiver at your wit's end, needing a different perspective, set up your free 15-minute coaching call-also by email -lana@lanaannemd.com - or on lanaslittlethings.com.
I always look forward to meeting Fellow Family Caregivers- we gotta stick together!๐ฏ