Your 21-day Family Caregiver's Challenge: Thrive into 2025!πDay 20 -Do You Need Professional Help?
#newyear2025 #gethelp #seekhelp #mentalhealth #overwhelm #familycaregiver #burnout #lanaslittlethings
You have done all you can do, and you have been positive; major challenges are manageable, but, sometimes the challenge of adjusting to the new life as a Family Caregiver is more than you can mentally and emotionally bear, and there is constant "cloud" of overwhelm and despair.π’π₯ΉβοΈβοΈ
Are you feeling more withdrawn? Does life seem to bring no joy whatsoever? π₯Ήπ₯Ήπ₯Ή
Do you feel as though that others would be "better off" if you weren't there? π’
These may be signs that you need a professional counselor.ποΈποΈ
This is one thing that you CANNOT put off!!πππ’π₯Ή
Reach out for professional help if these feelings are "taking over", or if someone close to you sees you in trouble and suggests this form of medical care. There is NO SHAME in seeking help!ππ«π«
Challenge: reach out; please ask for help!πππ
From my heart to yours alwaysπ
Dr. Lana
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Every day from December 21st 2023, until January 10th 2024, join me as we dive into 1 quick βthrive tipβ to help you get through these busy, hectic last days of 2023 and enter 2024 feeling "like a boss"!π πππ―πππ½π₯π₯
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Gents!! JUST for YOU! From meπ©π½ββοΈπππ½(with another Specially Invited Guest)
This is the Final Segment for November- What a month!
PART 2 of 2 - Men's MENTAL HEALTH - Do You Really Need a Therapist?
Sadly, despite the increasing need worldwide of issues concerning men's mental health, seeking "help" is still viewed with stigma and disdain.
WHY??
3 words: STIGMA , FEAR, and SHAME.π€«π₯Ίπ
π΄π½π" REAL men don't go to the doctor; only WEAK men do".
This is one of the MAJOR reasons for men , older and younger, from seeking help, seeking a listening ear, and descending into "depth of despair" and, sadly, suicide and substance abuse continue to escalate as a means of escape.
π·π·π·π·π·Please join me as I am so grateful to discuss these matters with Clinical Psychologist Mr. Krisnan Hurdle who will
π·Review those at risk
π· Describe the many ways that men can (safely and in privacy reach out to a trained therapist for assistance ) and
π·Practical methods and healthy coping strategies which not only improve self-confidence, but also improve the closest and most meaningful relationships in our lives!
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Contact Mr Hurdle : @https://www.instagram.com/insightconsultingcbean/
I trust that you will find this information vital for you and your friends and family who may be struggling to cope with stressors.
It is a sign of COURAGEπ― , NOT weakness, to reach out when you are overwhelmed.
Remember:
π΄π½ππLISTEN! If your friend or relative is exhibiting any of these signs , listen to the unspoken word; take them seriously (suicide among older persons IS increasing)
π΄π½ππDon't just "bring it up"; start with general conversation and again: ;let them TALK!
π΄π½ππ Form a "men's only community- "MANSHED" - mentor, provide a safe space to talk freely and .... eventually suggest seeking help.
Gents; older or younger:
WE NEED YOU!πππ
YOU MATTER!πππ
What action step will you take TODAY?
πPrevention, Preparation, Protectionπ
Good vibes always!π
From my heart to yoursπ
Dr. Lana
(Disclaimer: this is not meant to dictate medical information; please see full advice from your medical doctor)
#lanaslittlethings
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Overwhelmed? Let's connect: π§lana@lanaannemd.com
For more insights and connect for a FREE face-to-Face 15 minute Zoom call, and a place where we can connect as physicians on my website: lanaslittlethings.com
If you're a Family Caregiver at your wit's end, needing a different perspective, set up your free 15-minute coaching call-also by email -lana@lanaannemd.com - or on lanaslittlethings.com.
I always look forward to meeting Fellow Family Caregivers- we gotta stick together!π―
LANA'S LITTLE THINGS #189
#mentalhealth #mensmentalhealth #mensmentalhealthawareness #mensmentalhealthmatters #mentalhealthstigma #takechargeofyourlife #personalstory #familyhistory #mindfulness #healthylifestyle #counselling #seekhelp
Gents!! JUST for YOU! From meπ©π½ββοΈπππ½
Welcome back!
November is Men's Health Month! π
PART 1 of 2 - MENTAL HEALTH IN OLDER MALES
Sadly, this is increasing worldwide, notably among men in general; and older males.
WHY??
3 words: STIGMA ,FEAR, SHAME.π€«π₯Ίπ
π΄π½π" Real Men don't go to the doctor; only WEAK men do".
This is one of the MAJOR reasons for men , especially older males , from seeking help, seeking a listening ear, and descending into "depth of despair" and , sadly, suicide and substance abuse; feeling unwanted and . unvalidated.
Yet there are several factors which uniquely affect older males and there IS HELP; if we recognise the risks and note the signs and .......be the FRIEND/FAMILY that LISTENS and STICKS together.π
Please join me as I discuss a few of these and when and where help may be found )more on that next week)
RISKS:
π΄π½πMajor depressive disorder is strongly associated with suicide among older adults
π΄π½πPrevious mental health disorders many of which were undiagnosed when younger
π΄π½πChronic physical ill-health is also associated with suicide risk (and the more diseases, the higher the risk and thought : "there is no help".
π΄π½πChronic pain appears to be a more important factor in male than in female suicide.
π΄π½πStressful life events β especially loss of a spouse or best friend
π΄π½πLoss of your social circle
π΄π½πCognitive Impairment and Dementia
SIGNS:
π΄π½πSocial withdrawal
π΄π½πTalk of wanting to die; saying " I'm old and no use to anyone"; "it's time for me to go"
π΄π½πSubstance use/abuse (especially silent
π΄π½πChange of sexual identity
π΄π½πAbuse as a child ,which was never reported or raised until very late in life; tus no help was sought or available.
π΄π½πRetirement or loss of a job
HOW TO HELP?
π΄π½ππLISTEN! If your friend or relative is exhibiting any of these signs , listen to the unspoken word; take them seriously (suicide among older persons IS increasing)
π΄π½ππDon't just "bring it up"; start with general conversation and again: ;let them TALK!
π΄π½ππ Form a "men's only community- "MANSHED" - mentor, provode a safe space to talk freely and .... gradually suggest seeking help.
Gents; older or younger:
WE NEED YOU!πππ
YOU MATTER!πππ
What action step will you take TODAY?
πPrevention, Preparation, Protectionπ
Good vibes always!π
From my heart to yoursπ
Dr. Lana
(Disclaimer: this is not meant to dictate medical information; please see full advice from your medical doctor)
.....................................................
Overwhelmed? Let's connect: π§lana@lanaannemd.com
For more insights and connect for a FREE face-to-Face 15 minute Zoom call, and a place where we can connect as physicians on my website:
lanaslittlethings.com
If you're a Family Caregiver at your wit's end, needing a different perspective, set up your free 15-minute coaching call-also by email -lana@lanaannemd.com - or on lanaslittlethings.com.
I always look forward to meeting Fellow Family Caregivers- we gotta stick together!π―